| What Turns Women On! Some Research Into What Attracts Women Sexually In Men This material is the product of research into 200 women, who responded to a questionnaire about what they find sexually arousing....The main groups of responses were (click on the link to go to that section):
Whatever turns you on! Here are some things female readers like to do......email yours to mtce2009@yahoo.com 1. I'm about the same as most women, I guess.....but I fantasize about having more than one man fucking me at once (all holes filled!) 2. I would like to try it with another woman sometime. The thought of her licking my clitoris drives me wild and I come like crazy as I masturbate. 3. I have some sexual problems: don't like how my
vagina looks, don't like how my body looks. sometimes I feel comfortable
with my body but not with my vagina. I have bigger labia, not much bigger
I suppose, but still too big for me. Sometimes I feel anxious and uneasy
when my partner is touching me, maybe because of not so good experiences
before. Sometimes I feel bad after sex, like a little bitch who is good
only for fucking, but never mind, I have boyfriend who can help me with
this.. 4. We should be proud of the beauty and power that is our vulva. 5. I have enjoyed sex more as I grown older. 6. for me, female ejaculation is the highest level of sexual achievement. it is an empowering and wonderful experience 7. I have never faked an orgasm. 8. My wish is to be able to have orgasms easily and quickly so I can enjoy sex up to my full potential, which is something i have the right to do however, and whenever I want 9. Ok, well me and my boyfriend have sex a lot and I love it its amazing every time but I don't get to orgasm and I don't understand why it's so hard - it feels like I'm going to but I never do. I don't know if something's wrong with me or not because I've never had an orgasm before as far as I know. 10. Sometimes when I'm just thinking about the man that I'm in love with, I can have a small orgasm. I have never even touched this man. So I think that speaks volumes about how emotion plays into this. I don't recall ever being able to do that before him, but I have never been so in love. It's mental! My ex-husband wouldn't look me in the eyes when we had sex. We never "made love" because I couldn't get that connection. I tried to make love to him, but I just had to have the eye contact. At first I thought he was just shy but after a few years of being married, and mentioning it to him several times, and suggesting things, I realized he had some emotional problems with sex. He would actually get up and leave the room if I tried to initiate sex! Seriously, towards the end, I tried to get him to manually stimulate me....He turned his head and closed his eyes to do it. I sat there disgusted and completely unresponsive. And he didn't notice, because he wasn't paying any attention to me at all. He claims to have been molested by a male relative. I don't know if that played into it or not. He was also into "women being humiliated" in porn and other videos. Some of that shit was really fucking bad. So that sexual issue paired with other honesty issues led to us separating. This other man that I have been in love with for a while...he looks me in the eye all the time. We are intimate together. It feels real to me. So I wonder if that plays into the high sexual arousal with him or not. I am not sure. Also, I am allergic to lubricants. I just figured this out after years upon years of "yeast infections". Coconut oil is the only thing that doesn't seem to effect me, but that will require use of polyurethane condoms (once I am sexually active again). I have used the oil to masturbate and it seems to be doing great. Also, I have one large inner labia lip that is painful and hangs. So that really effects how I can be touched down there. It is always sore and gets in the way. there is a HUGE vein running through it, and I suspect may be causing it to stick out more. I wish you could see this thing. It's unbelievable. And it makes my clit off kilter like it's being pulled down and out on one side. I am not sure, but I think it may be from the time that i got that lip stuck in an electric massager when I was 12 and had to yank it out. wish I knew. What else......I don't have any weird hang-ups. I
like tasteful porn - on the rare occasion that I do watch it. um....I like
dicks. I like when they're wider at the base because I think it's going to
feel better. not sure if it's true. ummm.... I used to like girls for a while there, many years in fact, but I'm over that now. Strictly dickly now - it just feels right. I like men, everything about them. I would almost venture to say I need them. 11. I like huge penises and kinky foreplay 12. not really into bondage yet submission play makes me hornier- I cum more frequently 13. I like to drink my orgasm juices 14. I'm in my 50's and I'm having the best sex I've
ever had. I met a funny charming man who went through a terrible divorce
just like me. We have a lot in common and enjoy a great physical
relationship. I have had as many as 12+ orgasms because unlike the average
man he can "last" a long time before he cums. I've ejaculated and at first
I wasn't comfortable with it because I didn't understand it. With the help
of this wonderful man I know more now, it totally turns him on and I'm
getting more comfortable with it. I don't have a lot of sexual experience
however I've done more with this man than I ever did with my ex husband. I
hated giving my ex oral sex......I not only do that now but my partner
says I give him the best blow job he's ever had. Damn, I even swallow. 15. My fantasy is to be triple penetrated by my husband and two other men. I want to be fucked in the ass and fucked in the pussy by two men while I suck my husband's dick. He is all for seeing me fucked by two men. 17.Ii find the act of masturbating to be very very sexy, on both a man and a women. I enjoy watching masturbation, whether it be myself in a mirror, my husband, or an adult video. I find it to be very sexy and powerful to see someone taking their own genitals into their own hands. I do find that masturbating with my hands leaves me feeling more satisfied then masturbating with a vibrator. It seems like the vibrations leaves a residual tingle that makes me continue to feel a need for relief. So, often with a vibrator I end up masturbating 2 or 3 times to orgasm, instead of just once. Masturbating with the shower head is something I tried recently and the orgasm is mind blowing and makes me nearly fall to the ground because my knees become so weak. It only happens during pregnancy, but I noticed when I was pregnant when I would masturbate and have a clitoral orgasm while in a sitting position I would often leak urine. I don't know if it was because of weaker vaginal muscles or pressure from the baby on the bladder, but it felt very good. Often if I could feel the orgasm coming and really loosen myself up instead of tensing, I would urinate during an orgasm (of course, only on the toilet) but it felt amazing. Unfortunately, it is not something i can replicate when I'm not pregnant. I often wonder whether or not a man can urinate with an erect penis. I would love to straddle my husband facing away from him with his penis between my legs so I could masturbate him like his penis was my own. Most times if I do not orgasm during sex I will masturbate while he is in the bathroom and try to finish before he is out. It excites me to think of him "catching" me and I can generally orgasm very quickly. Even though I find my large labia to be very embarrassing and even now, over 5 years later it embarrasses me to have my legs spread for my husband, I love the feeling of slipping my fingers between them and how wet and slippery they get. As much as they are embarrassing to look at, I bet they feel great around a penis when they are wet. Sometimes I squeeze my labia around my clitoris and stroke it back and forth like a man stroking a penis. I would love to sit with my husband, both our legs spread and mine linked over his and masturbate together. I just think he looks so sexy gripping his penis and I would love to be able to masturbate while I watch him stroke. Sometimes I fantasize about my husband picking up a women in a bar and bringing her home and hiding in the closet and masturbating while I watch them. it will never happen, and I will probably never even share that fantasy with my husband, but I find it very arousing. I often want to lay outside naked in the sun to tan and masturbate. Again, it will never happen, because I do not want to get in trouble for indecent exposure, but the warm sun against my swim suit and genitals makes me feel very aroused. 18. I love hard sex with my other half 20. My husband does not know that I have sex with other men and women. I would like him to watch me and to be fucked by at least two men at the same time. I'm not sure I can share my female sex partners with him though. 22. I would love to experience a black cock. Also I fantasize about oral sex with a woman. 24. I have always wanted to go with an older more mature larger female just the once to see what it is like and also to gain experience 25. I love to suck and clean my husband's cock after he has fucked me. |
